Summer Rain!!

March month of 2015 was a new-born summer. Bangalore is hot now itself ! Plus in degrees than last yr March, feel so. Then South India, should be inside Oven during May-June timelines.

GOD knows when to switch it on n off !

Since 2 days, hope HE is in Summer-Switch-Off mode, yes, Bangalore is under shower, sometimes heavy with thunder. Its cloudy, rarely sun shows his face. Hah, no hot breeze n sweat, Thank God!
Rain, just made Blr coool.

My heart is in search of hot tea with bajji or bonda or pakkoda and Love-Melodies!!!

Enjoy Summer Rains!!! :)

Waiting for the Special You!

Early it was days, then months, now its been years, dear!

looking for you!... Waiting for you!...

Will be celebrating your arrival! you know that very well, don't you?...

but where are you?... where have you been?...

Have you lost in some dimension like in sci-fic movies?

What is so important than you coming to me?...

My thoughts on your presence with me makes me crazy!

Still waiting with loads of patience for you!

God help you find the path and come home soon! . . .

Few Ones Among Us Makes Time

Am following a blog Nisaptham since some time. Blogger Mr. Vaa.Manikandan, IT-software employee,  has an excellent skill of writing in Tamil. He blogs on whatever comes to his mind to share with the world. The flow is very natural, very simple, open and broad-minded, makes his point of view very clear, that keeps readers inviting to his blog. He has published few books on short stories/articles, that has a good traffic of audience. 

And you know what he does with the money his books get him! 

He just donates all of them to the needy people thru his trust. His blog art brings him a lot of sponsors to his trust. Donation lists sports items to schools, part of surgery bills, etc. Impressive part is, he makes sure each paisa reaches the people who really struggles to afford and all debts and credits to trust account, is open to all sponsors(See here). This transparency is his strength and success.

There are lot of us willing to donate money, but hesitate just because we don't know it really reaches for the real purpose, as there is no sufficient time to go check in person. I beleive people like this Gentlemen help us to come out. So he does blogging, maintain Trust/account, put effort whatever is required to make sure of the needy situation is real, writing + releasing his books along with the full-time employment and family to take care. Wondering, how he gets time for all these!

There are people like him who Makes Time for what drives them lively on earth!

Hats-off  to Mr. Vaa.Manikandan!

How old are you

It happend to read the cine news that actress Jyothika is going to act in a malayalam remake movie How old are you. Curiosity is with me then to know the story of the movie. Watched the malayalam movie myself. Its fantastic! the story line, picturization, actors performance, etc. are very excellent. so inspirational! everybody should watch this one. yep, there are few things that wont happen in real time but in big screen alone.

The fact is that "Believe yourself, Know what you do, Step one ahead - your invisible ladder just fell in your path " Wow! What a message!

Happy New Year 2015!

May all the good fly to us and increase our goodness meter inside us !
May love n humanity weigh more than anything in our heart !
May the war, local or global, be quarantined !
May the knowledge show the path of achievement !

May God show mercy on all of us !


Happy New Year 2015 to all !

Heavenly Marriage 2

It was very beautiful evening yesterday, doing my usual walk in the park and while sensing good breeze, i heard this conversation between She1 and She 2.

She1: my MIL started complaining that my parents didnt give x no. of sweets for the last week special occasion. They hav given y no. Of sweets only. Its her prestige issue on scale of her neighbour. But the y is the same as my parents side relatives have given to their daughters and boys parents are pretty much happy to receive. Its not at all less. Its what followed in our society. I always hate people speaking less of my parents when they have not done anything less. I never used to do things that hurts my parents as my parents would never hurt me in anyways. Thats why I can't stand with this and also failed in making MIL understand this. Its much disappointing and disturbing, that I cant concentrate in my work too"
She2: This is too bad, to hear.
She1: (silence)
She2: it sounds like old age MILs, always unsatisfied with girls parents. They used dominate and threaten emotionally the girls side. I could say that my grandma was execptional. I wonder this even happens in this new era. This behavior is so cheap and silly too. That too you are earning, why cant MIL compensate with that? Wondering why your hubby is allowing this to happen. He should support you not getting irritate like this.
She1: I dont know why my earning is not considered or respected at all. Am earning xx, 00, 000 per annum and amount equal to x-y no. Of sweets is just x, 000. This job is also because of my parents only. They have spent huge effort and amount towards my education.
She2: pardon me, but MIL is heartless! May be she is not good at maths, it seems. (Tried to change her mood, it worked)
She 1: (first time in the conversation I heard her better with small chuckle) yeah, may be.
She2: whatever happened is not your or your parents fault so dont worry. Try not to give much importance to this kind of situation and look into your routine.
She1: okies friend, see u later bye
She2: bye

Yeah, there are MILs still comparing whatever recived from girls parents and worst part is complaining that directly to the girl. Frequent happening of the same might lead to affect the girls peace of mind, increase the mental stress along with official stress, indirectly damage her health. That affects the boys too. Which in turn delays the heavenly marriage in every aspects.

My opinion is, present or future MILs, treat both your son and DIL with same respect and care, and treat your DILs parents equally important to you. Nobody is less than other by good human values. If you cant support the couple, atleast try not disturb their heavenly marriage. "Marriage is not done for prestige, not to showcase your finance status, its done only for life time sweet companionship and nothing can substitute this. Live and let live!"

Another Auspicious Day!!

Today 30 July 2014, is another auspicious day, AADI POORAM. Goddess Aandal's birth anniversary. Its a belief that Goddess Aandal born on the day of pooram nakshathiram in the Tamil month Aadi. Its good that we go to temple on these days with family, to spend few minutes together. Lifestyle is changing from generation to generation. There is no much time to spare for family. Huh, nobody can blame anybody for this. Its TIME, which forces the change. Okay lets not get into this. I have something else in my mind to scribble here.

Its common query araises when one sees a temple, "why is a temple built when everybody says God is everywhere? Praying at home, doing poojas at home is not enough? Visiting temple is that important?" Our elders would compel us to visit temple as frequent as possible, then only God will see us, hear us. Is that true?

Of course, opinion differs and I can't expect you all to agree with me. Up to me, it might be partial. God is a supreme power and knows every move of yours. God knows what you want. But gives what you need, when you need it. God don't tell you to come and meet him in temple, to fulfil your needs. God expects our heart to be pure.

People enter temple with hopes and leave with positive thoughts. What is filled inside the temple is, the positive energy created by the positive thoughts of lot of people. More gets collected and stored in the sannathi or garbagraha because of converging shape of gopuram. Once you enter this place, the hair in your body, gold ornaments that you wear, etc., will observe those positive energy and make your body and mind calm. This makes you light hearted and leave with positive thoughts. This would be the hidden reason why the temple visiting practice is made very often. May be, lot more reasons exists. But this one is quite convincing for me.  What about you?

There are lot of queries with curiosity to ask why is this and that. There is a quite interesting column carries conversation between God and science, in a worthy monthly magazine - "Frozen thoughts". May be, we would have got explanation for many of this, if ancestors traditionally practiced us, "This is the direct reason and that's why we insist you to follow this for your wellness".