Heavenly Marriage 5

Freedom

Wow! this strong, fresh and beautiful word gives ultimate meaning to marriage life.

Marriage is to build intimate companion-ship between the couples. No doubt!
That doesnt means always YES to your spouse and always NO to your spouse. If it is always yes or always no, then that means you are not getting or giving freedom in your marriage life.

Treating your spouse to your equal, is important. Time since your birth till your day before marriage, you come across many people, you handled many situations wisely, you have learnt a lot from good experiences, every these might come either from your own family, or living place, or study place, or work place, or with friends, or anything... So your spouse is coming with good knowledge, good maturity state, good experiences as you. Your spouse is not a blank space that you can fill whatever you wished to fill. There is nobody in the world is as known nothing. Every day in your marriage is ready to make you learn something. If you are still learning, how could you complain or let somebody complain your spouse. Right?
 
If you or your parents or anybody, keep complaining your spouse, then there is no freedom to your spouse.The family lifestyle, brought up style would be different , but you just cant question each and every day to day activity of your spouse, that means you or you let others in your family to steal your spouse freedom. You cant force your spouse to think as you think, act as you act, speak as you speak. Your spouse is your partner, not a slave to you or your family.

Giving freedom to think, to act, to speak, to design your marriage life to your spouse is ideal. And very important is if you want to lead heavenly marriage life, then its your sole responsibility to ensure freedom of your spouse.

Love flourishes with freedom, which leads to Heavenly marriage!

Heavenly Mariage 4

 Pros and cons %

Its been very long time I have been writing here!
Haaaaahhhh , you know kids, yet enjoying ( or trying to enjoy inbetween lot of responsibilities ;) ) parenting. OH GOD! Please give me strength.

Since few years am seeing couples are not happy after marriage...
We may think, we are happy with what we are, then why to marry and spoil our peace of mind, when people always suffer after marriage. For whom those who think the same, I convey them the voice I heard from a very noble and good heart and it says " Marriage has not only suffering, it has lot of happiness where people wont express about them as they have enough time to swim in suffering"

Its true or not, you tell me. Everything has its own pros and cons. Hope marriage is no exceptional. Mostly couple speak abt their cons. They only know their pros, i mean, happy moments. But to accompany you to your life time, you need a life partner. With that taking in mind we can forgive or forget cons to live our pros, atleast we can try.....

Okay, I may be correct here, but what if pros percentage is very less than cons percentage. My opinion is , Marriage is nothing but commitment to yourself and your family, if you are true to yourself and involved in your commitment then its far better to have lots of hope and wait that life will change as we wished once and carry on our responsibilities with all due respect. I believe the HOPE, sure will bring the good change in our life.

Be positive and keep up, All the best for your Heavenly Marriage time ahead! :)