Heavenly Marriage 5

Freedom

Wow! this strong, fresh and beautiful word gives ultimate meaning to marriage life.

Marriage is to build intimate companion-ship between the couples. No doubt!
That doesnt means always YES to your spouse and always NO to your spouse. If it is always yes or always no, then that means you are not getting or giving freedom in your marriage life.

Treating your spouse to your equal, is important. Time since your birth till your day before marriage, you come across many people, you handled many situations wisely, you have learnt a lot from good experiences, every these might come either from your own family, or living place, or study place, or work place, or with friends, or anything... So your spouse is coming with good knowledge, good maturity state, good experiences as you. Your spouse is not a blank space that you can fill whatever you wished to fill. There is nobody in the world is as known nothing. Every day in your marriage is ready to make you learn something. If you are still learning, how could you complain or let somebody complain your spouse. Right?
 
If you or your parents or anybody, keep complaining your spouse, then there is no freedom to your spouse.The family lifestyle, brought up style would be different , but you just cant question each and every day to day activity of your spouse, that means you or you let others in your family to steal your spouse freedom. You cant force your spouse to think as you think, act as you act, speak as you speak. Your spouse is your partner, not a slave to you or your family.

Giving freedom to think, to act, to speak, to design your marriage life to your spouse is ideal. And very important is if you want to lead heavenly marriage life, then its your sole responsibility to ensure freedom of your spouse.

Love flourishes with freedom, which leads to Heavenly marriage!